I am not sure if any of you out there have a child like mine, but I often have a hard time determining whether or not my middle child is actually sick or is being a hypochondriac. She has always complained a lot of various things hurting her or not feeling well. Most of the time just asking a few questions and paying a little special attention to her heals whatever is really ailing her, which I often think is middle child syndrome.
Lately she has been complaining on and off of stomach aches. She has complained a couple times that she has thrown up, but no one saw her, heard anything, and she was completely fine directly following her apparent vomitting episode. But this past Sunday I finally got my proof that there is something going on.
I picked the girls up from their dad's house, and upon arriving at home they got ready for bed. A few minutes after bed time she came into my bedroom and complained that she had thrown up. My husband got her settled back into bed, since I was nursing the baby. The next morning I found some residue on the toilet seat. She had eaten stuffed shells, so it was tinged red....which at first freaked me out until I questioned what she had eaten. So, now I KNOW she has actually thrown up at least one time.
We have a doctor appointment this morning, and I am a little nervous. My mother thinks it is a gall bladder issue. I wonder if it is not something like reflux. It seems like it is always something for her. She has terrible allergy issues, she is a teeny tiny little thing, she has a double astigmatism, and is very near sighted, etc. She is absolutely the sweetest, most loving, affectionate, emotional child around. She will love anyone and everyone she meets. I feel bad that often when she is complaining about not feeling well, "Mommy, my toe hurts, and my ear hurts, and my side hurts and my finger hurts," that I feel it is mostly attention seeking. Her grandmother tells me her dad was the same way as a kid.
I just want my baby to be okay. She is 8 but she will always be my baby. So if you say prayers, can you say a little one for my sweet pea. We would both be very appreciative.
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